You’ve worked on yourself, you’re aware, but somehow, you end up in the same spot—feeling stuck, anxious, and closed off.
The truth is, the love you want is out there, and it starts with knowing your worth and stepping into your power.
You're ambitious, strong, and determined to thrive in every area of life—but when it comes to relationships, it can feel like you’re stuck in the same cycle.
As an Attachment & Relationship Coach, I help women like you heal their attachment styles and build the loving, secure connections you’ve been searching for—not just with others but with yourself, too.
The struggle is real, and I know it firsthand. Those mornings when you wake up with a whirlwind of thoughts, feeling frustrated by the same patterns playing out again and again? It’s like being on a ride you can’t get off. You’ve worked on yourself, you’re aware, but somehow, you end up in the same spot—feeling stuck, anxious, and closed off.
My journey to becoming a Relationship Coach started with my own story. Years of feeling trapped in the cycle of anxious thoughts, relationship anxiety, and trust issues led me to search for answers. I experienced firsthand how difficult it is to break the pattern, even when you know something needs to change. But through deep, consistent work, I transformed my own attachment style and learned what it takes to cultivate lasting change and security in relationships.
Armed with professional training and real-life experience, I now guide other ambitious women on their journey to heal, grow, and build relationships that are secure, fulfilling, and aligned with their deepest desires. Helping my clients break through their own barriers, find their worth, and step confidently into the love and life they deserve is what fuels my passion every single day.
Ready to thrive in love, life, and everything in between? Let’s make it happen.
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DO ANY OF THESE
SOUND LIKE YOU?
ARE YOU READY TO FEEL SEEN?
DO ANY OF THESE
SOUND LIKE YOU?
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Anxious
Preoccupied:
Relationships can sometimes evoke feelings of anxiety or insecurity. It’s possible that fears of abandonment prompt you to seek additional comfort and security in forming connections, and you are quick to perceive when someone seems to be distancing themselves.
02
Fearful
Avoidant:
Relationships can sometimes induce feelings of confusion and overwhelm, as you might often be anxious and reserved. Your demeanor can fluctuate between being “hot and cold” depending on the connection, leading to uncertainty about your own emotions.
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Securely
Attached
For you, relationships tend to be comfortable and effortless. You excel in expressing your needs and emotions, and you find openness and vulnerability to be natural. However, you might find it challenging when others are not as at ease with these aspects as you are.
04
Dismissive
Avoidant
Relationships often overwhelm you with intense emotions, prompting you to distance yourself from others. Your desire for independence can lead to difficulties in your interactions and internal strife.
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Join a community of women dedicated to personal empowerment and relationship improvement. In this group, you’ll discover how to develop awareness around attachment styles, which are often new yet crucial aspects of how we connect and build relationships.
As The Secure Heart, you break free from your attachment trauma and create the love, safety, and connection that you deeply crave so you can thrive in love, life and/or business.
Imagine stepping into your power and consistently making real time decisions on how you respond & show up in your relationships in a way that meets your needs.
Overcome attachments to specific people or outcomes in life or business.
Improving the relationship within yourself, overcome imposter syndrome so you will feel confident in relating to others. You will truly know your needs, and express them, so you no longer have to shut down or withdraw to cope.
When you understand your emotions you will get comfortable with experiencing the full range of your feelings so that you can feel seen, heard, and connected in your relationships with others.
Knowing how to set boundaries and communicating them develops the version of yourself that lives for you, not anyone else.
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THE SECURE HEART 1:1 PROGRAM
Your personal invitation to break free from your attachment trauma and create the love, live, and success that you deeply crave.
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Develop a new, fully integrated approach to reprogram your attachment style.
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Address painful thoughts, emotions, and behaviors obstructing healthy, loving relationships.
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Achieve authentic alignment with yourself, making it possible to find and maintain connections with your "soul people."
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